Rick, with trach tube, and his brother Kabir |
By Peter McKenzie-Brown
The world is a
vast place. According to UN stats, about three people (net) join this planet’s
population every second. As we write these words, a global population of eight
billion is imminent. In such a world, is it possible that medicine can identify
an entirely new way to speak? Indeed it is. It appears that our adoptive son,
who as an infant lost his voice-box and spent most of his early childhood in a
hospital, was discouraged from even trying to talk. Since then he has learned
to speak – hoarsely, but successfully – using methods previously unknown in
medical literature.
My
son – his name is Rick – was ten months old when his biological mother took him
to the hospital with a high fever and Rubella,
a viral infection commonly known as German measles. The medical team put a tube
down his throat to prevent him from suffocating, and then did a tracheotomy –
an incision in the windpipe – to save his life. If they had done the
tracheotomy first his vocal chords would have been saved, but his life was
their priority. With intubation, Rubella
bacteria migrated to his vocal cords, causing extensive scarring, and narrowing
his throat.
He
spent the next two years with a steel trach tube, which needed frequent cleaning, sticking
out of his throat, and had regular operations – twenty in all – to dilate his
throat. A nurse was assigned specifically to him every shift, 24 hours per day.
Since he couldn’t speak, he had bells on his shoes so nurses and visitors to
the ward always knew where he was. My wife, Jasbir did some shifts in
pediatrics, where she first encountered him.
He’d
play happily with other children in pediatrics’ rec centre, and casually wave
goodbye to those going home. By then he was so accustomed to child patients
coming in briefly and then going home that it seemed normal. “I remember
wondering how he would develop bonds if everyone always left, while he stayed
behind,” Jasbir says. “Nurses, doctors, kids, parents, play therapist, speech
therapist – the one common factor was that they all left.”
When
Rick was about two years old, the social system wanted to find foster parents
for him so he could leave the hospital. The requirement was that the parent had
to be an RN willing to quit his or her job to focus on Rick. Karen, a nurse who
had looked after him in intensive care and visited for years, wanted to adopt
him but was single and could not quit work. Another pediatrics nurse, who was
married, also wanted to adopt him but would not quit her job.
We
had a son eight months younger than Rick, however, and one Saturday morning
talked about his case. Before Jasbir could raise the matter of adoption, I asked
“Why don’t we foster him, and then adopt him?” The rest, the saying goes, is
history. Rick quickly adjusted to living with us and we did not see any signs
of him missing the hospital. “He cried when we returned him to the unit after
his first overnight stay with us,” Jasbir remembers. “The nurses thought he was
crying because he had missed the hospital. But I reminded them that children do
not cry when they are happy. Once, when we were driving past the Holy Cross,
Rick pointed to the hospital and said, ‘my ‘opital, it full of ‘owies.’”
To
get Rick accustomed to his new life, the newly forming family would take trips
to a park near our home. “I will never forget the first time we did that,”
Jasbir says. Rick “had spent almost three years indoors. Seeing all those big
trees and the wide open spaces scared him so much that I had to carry him most
of the walk.”
In
a personal reflection on his early years, Rick once wrote that “my brother
Kabir was just eight months younger than me. We were very good friends when we
were young, and my sister was born about a year and a half after I joined the
family. Kabir and I teased her a lot when she was old enough to tease, and once
fed her some white paste glue covered with brown sugar.” He added, “She soon
became very bossy, probably because she had to defend herself against Kabir and
me, but she soon became part of our games.”
The
Medical Update
At the beginning
of this paper I noted that Rick has no vocal chords. That’s a huge
inconvenience if you want to learn to speak. The nurses at the hospital taught
him to communicate by teaching him some simple sign language. To get an idea
how simple, put your thumb between your first and second fingers. That meant he
needed to go to the bathroom.
It
was a new and challenging world for us all. Well before the adoption rites were
complete, we agreed that we would not put up with this sign language he had
learned in the hospital. Kabir, who had been an only child, suddenly had to
share our attention. Rick had learned to cope with other children by being
aggressive. That had to stop.
The
whole family had to adjust. We parents had to adjust to a having a new child without
the usual preliminaries. To Rick’s horror, his new parents refused to respond
to sign language. “We were determined that he would learn how to speak,” Jasbir
recalls. At first, this led to tantrums, but his new parents were adamant. He slowly
began to make progress, gradually learning to speak – as a child – with a deep,
husky voice. Nicknamed “motormouth” because he was talkative as a child, Kabir
encouraged him to speak by example. The two became close friends.
The
reason his voice was and still is hoarse and a bit raspy is related to the
reality that he doesn’t have vocal chords. He didn’t have the equipment for
speech, so Rick found a workaround: the palatine uvula, which is a piece of
flesh hanging from the soft palate in the back of the mouth, composed of
connective tissue containing specialized glands, and muscular fibers.
When
Rick recently had some specialized medical tests at a clinic in Vancouver, the ear,
nose and throat specialist noted with astonishment that Rick had learned to
speak by voicing into his uvula, somehow. A check of the medical literature
found no other cases of the kind. As far as we know, Rick – now 43 – is one of
a kind. Of course, as a family we have known that for most of his lifetime.
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